Psychic Love Zone

Now then….This topic came to me whilst I was trying to get to sleep, last night.

Tossing and turning, I decided to just lie still in supine position, and allow, today’s material for my show to take shape. This is what I was given.

Rewind: “Flash backs” from my past relationships came flooding in. The first, real relationship that would have changed the pattern of my life path completely, if I’d stayed the distance was with a lovely man Called Steve Orbell.

I was just 17 years old, very mature for my age and full of energy and attitude! (Yes you can imagine) I met Steve, at a party we flirted, and exchanged telephone numbers. To cut a very long story short, we went on to have a 6 year relationship, which was very relevant indeed because…..

I left home at 17. My Father, bless him, was a very strict Roman Catholic Southern Italian man stuck in the Victorian era! I have to feel for him really, because he really did think that he was doing his best by bringing up 5 children, in London having migrated from Southern Italy to make a better life for his family. He ended up, as many Italians did back then, in South London. A wonderful place called The Elephant and Castle! YES …Famous for its greyness and lack of soul! although things are changing and in 5 to 10 years time, I predict a 2nd canary wharf? Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing, I got out as quickly as I could!

The likes of Roger Moore and Michael Kane are the fruits of this marvellous place!!!! Anyway…

My relationship with Steve was a WAY OUT. (I did love him though) I needed to live and breathe. This was almost impossible to do, with a father that had real problems with his girls growing up and becoming REAL WOMEN He failed miserably with us all, in trying to control what we did, and who we did it with and as a conscience, lost out big time because in the end, we did things in our own way any how which he couldn’t, and never did accept! ….. Moving on ….

If I had stayed with my first love, I would have created a very different life to the one I have today, No doubt. I would have had a least 4 great children, perhaps never have perused a career that reflected what was in my heart and soul, and for sure would have felt a little cheated, because I followed a family pattern out of Fear and probably would have felt, that I never reached, my true potential! (Don’t get the tissues out yet)

If I went through my whole relationship history, as interesting as it’s been I’d get told off, for writing too much so…..

My point is that we never just “fall into our relationships” WE CREATE THEM what ever our reasons or motives are.

I went on to have just one other significant relationship before I met my Husband. Lots of insignificant ones in between, but really I was always looking to connect and feel deep passionate love! This, has always been my mission Venus in Libra in the 6th house Mars in Scorpio, in the 7th I couldn’t have it any other way! All my Astro sisters and brothers will understand what I mean.

Would I have done anything differently? Probably Not. However I’m always up for learning and growing. Every break up, or break down I had, no matter how significant or not, always had a profound impact on me.

When I look back, I can actually see why certain relationships never worked out. They were never meant to. They simply “ran their course” and were a reflection of where I was at, at that time.

My intention and motivation, was and always is Pure, which is why, I have No regrets when it comes to my relationships. Past and present.

Join me Wednesday 15th July on Love zone. Let’s talk about your relationships Past, Present, and Future. Tune in at 5:30 for Your Relationship Special!

See you then

Rosa xx

Copy right Rosa Derriviere 2009

Trying to understand the multitude of feelings that we get when we get involved in ‘romantic’ relationships, whether it be for a night or several decades, can often be nigh on impossible. Naturally, we encounter relationships throughout our late teens, twenties and thirties before the majority of us either decide that it’s just not going to happen or one day, we change our mind set and find a suitable ‘mate’. We hear about the ‘body clock’ or sense pressure from our family regarding the desire for grandchildren or nephews and nieces and subconsciously start to head in the direction of finding a suitable ‘long term’ partner……it’s a perfectly natural reaction to something that has been dormant within us since we arrived here. The need to find a partner and leave our imprint on earth is a very strong desire within us. Some of us will get it right and find a gorgeous partner, others will make hasty decisions or some simply won’t get there at all. It’s called life. At this stage in our mindset, it is very easy to fall in love with the idea of falling in love.The Human mind is very powerful and is able to make us convinced of anything. I very nearly ended up marrying somebody I thought I was ‘in love’ with. It took a move from Spain to London to a more neutral ground to realize that I was not in Love and that we in fact, had very little in common with each other, she was a lovely person and we had a very  interesting couple of years together, but at the end of the day, I had been affected by peer pressure and hints from the family and decided that this was it…..she was definitely brought into my life for many reasons, marriage sadly wasn’t one of them. It’s important that you are able to step back when faced with this prospect and stand on neutral ground to weigh it up, after all, making a commitment such as marriage is a massive step for anybody and shouldn’t be rushed. Look at the foundations on which the relationship is based. You should support each other, through thick and thin and more importantly, you should compliment each other.

I welcome your comments and will happily expand on this……..

Love and light

I want to talk about two of the recent e-mail readings I have carried out.  Both asked whether or not there would be new love coming for them soon.  As a Clairvoyant I feel it is my responsibility to be truthful and give a real reflection of what is going on with and around the person.  If I do see new love coming I will say so.  However, if I look at the person and see why new love does not come or why they are stuck in repeat patterns with relationships I will also say that, in the hope that it can be received positively and made use of.

The circumstances were fairly similar, both were female, both had been alone for a long time were looking for love.  As I carried out the readings I could see quite clearly that the first person had experienced repeating patterns in her partnerships.  She had no trouble meeting guys as she was an attractive woman with a bubbly personality, her relationships ran well for approximately 3 months and then either contact ceased unexpectedly and/or the partner tried to dominate her.

The reason? Because she sub-consciously chose men who would challenge her.  She liked her partners to be ambitious, driven men who sought to conquer.  The reading I gave said, amongst other things, that she could manifest her desire if you re-programmed her thinking and her underlying desire to go to battle constantly.  She was in agreement and could easily identify with what the Guides showed to me.

The second reading was really quite sad.  I could see that this person had come from a background of very negative upbringing.  She was unrecognised and undervalued even as a small girl.  Therefore and quite understandably, she had adopted this pattern through her life and took up the role when her parents left off.  She always damned herself and felt she was uninteresting, unattractive and not particularly skilled in anything, except wanting a loving partner.

Through the reading the Guides tried to point out to this woman that she could not expect anyone to love, respect or value her if she did not feel those things for herself.  Also, it was evident through clairsentience (clear feeling), that she was very lonely and just needed to be loved.  Her prime consideration was always someone else, e.g. partner, children, extended family and not herself.

Sadly, this lady did not want to hear those things and could not accept that the blueprint for her life would be just that if she was not prepared to accept that things in the past had been unduly hard, that she was not always to blame and good things could happen to her.

Copyright Litz Butcher 2009

A lot of text messages and caller comments that I get are from people who when I say to them are you in a relationship at the moment they reply  ” Sort Of ” . Then as the Detective that I am I look into what the other person is feeling at this moment in time, and it usually comes to light that the other person has started to have feelings and is quite shocked by this and withdraws into his or her cave to level themselves out again then they come forward as though nothing has happened. When this is the case I tell the lady or gentleman to just back off for a little while and be kind to themselves as it is not personal and the other person will come forward again. A lot of people take it personally and feel that the relationship is over when its just in a Waiting Room and it is so infuriating that there is nothing they can do to make it better. A lot of text messages and phone calls will just make it worse them more bitter at being ignored. Sometimes through my Detective Work I find that it could be work that is not good at the moment or something else but they dont know the partner that well to be able to tell them and it lowers their self esteem so makes them want to withdraw .

When the person comes back either by text message of phonecall I always say be the person that they met not the person that they left in other words be bright bubbly and not negative and upset, as this will drive them away.

Has this situation happened to you or are you in that situation at the moment , my Detective Work will find out just why the other person has retreated and when it will get back on track but in the meantime be kind to yourself and get on with your day to day activities, and there is a motto of mine which is keep one in tow because you just never know !!!!!

Let me know what you would do in this situation

Katie Keeleyx

This is for anyone who saw the ‘Alone’ and ‘Enlightenment And Love’ Psychic Love Zones, ( if you didn’t, where were you? ) and hopefully, it will add to what was talked about in those shows.

We were really finding out that love is an experience which comes before anything else, remains a reality despite whatever’s going on now for you or the person you love most, and continues as something felt or known even if for a time there’s separation or the relationship ends. We also looked at what being alone means psychically; we had to. I have been exploring the theme of ‘Love And The World’ from the very first Psychic Love Zone I appeared on, I’ve simply been describing various aspects of it. Knowing some of this can help you deal with the real pressure of daily living, often a very fine line between feeling stressed - a banal use of a word if there ever was one - and maybe even going mad because you don’t understand why something’s happening or feel you can’t cope with it. No, you don’t need me to tell you love can be a bumpy road, or that there is a vast difference between what the world tells you love is and your experience of it.

The love in you, and your desire to express it is beautiful. The world is the problem, not that love. Never forget this. The world can, and will, throw something ugly at you, doing it apparently at random. The trick is not to expect it ( that can draw it to you ) but to anticipate its possibility because you’re wise enough to understand this is the way the world is. If you think life’s cruel, threatening to take away something beautiful, you’re wrong. But if you can see that what you love will be challenged in some way to show you if in the end it is real, well, you’ve sussed what’s going on then, havn’t you.

Who do you take it up with if you don’t like it? God only knows.

John Healey 2009.